The discovery of the female G-spot created a real sensation at one time, although it is still not believed to exist. At the same time, only a few people know about a similar men's area, but every guy definitely has one, and it is much easier to find it. All you need is good lubrication and gentle fingers. And of course, absolute trust, because not every girl will have access to the most intimate.
Where is the G spot in men?
Unlike women, who have to search for a mystery area literally at random, guys don't have to guess its location. Point "G" in men, behind which the well-known prostate is hidden, is located on the front wall of the rectum, about 5 cm above the anus. To the touch it resembles a tubercle the size of a walnut or chestnut and swells when excited.
To find a man's G-spot, it is not necessary to examine the anus. You can also affect the sensitive area from the outside. It is located between the anus and the base of the penis, approximately in the middle of the perineum (there is usually no hair in this area). For some guys, the erogenous zone may shift slightly to the left or right. To find it, you can ask your husband or girlfriend to caress the perineal area with their tongue. From the outside, the prostate can be felt as an almond-shaped seal.
Do all men enjoy the caress of the G-spot?
Sensations from prostate stimulation can be very different. Some guys experience incredible pleasure (literally - to tears), for others it helps maintain arousal, for others the pressure on the G-spot seems unpleasant and even painful. But it's definitely worth a try so you don't deprive your man of a special experience. The main thing is to act carefully and slowly, without sudden movements or the use of force.
A good way to test your response to stimulation of the area is to examine it during masturbation:
- By applying pressure to the area between the scrotum and the anus just before ejaculation, release can be delayed.
- The impact on the process forces more blood into the penis, making its pulsation more powerful and pleasurable.
- The strong rhythmic pressure imitates the contraction process of the prostate, increasing the intensity of the final stage of orgasm.
- For greater pleasure, it is recommended to caress the G-spot at the moment of reaching the maximum erection, as soon as the body of the penis is inflated to its entire length. If the sensations are unpleasant or invisible, you should wait a little. If at the moment of full arousal there is still no reaction, perhaps this area in a certain man is not considered erogenous. In this case, it is better to focus on stroking the scrotum and penis, or return to exploring the area later.
How to properly stimulate a man's G-spot?
If the partner is uncomfortable or insecure, the first experiment may be unsuccessful. But it is possible that later quests bring more satisfaction if one can truly break free. Help in such games will be special devices (finger attachments, vibrating bullets, small vibrator), which are presented in a wide variety in adult stores. You can caress the g-spot in at least two ways:
- From the inside. The finger or toy should be well lubricated and then inserted into the anus 5 cm or more. You should move in the direction of the pubis. You can find the sensitive "g" spot near the tubercle on the rectal wall. And then you need to massage it carefully, observing the man's reaction.
- Out. Here you can perform stimulation in two ways - oral or manual. A man will be pleased to touch the G-spot with the tip of the tongue, which can alternate with passionate kisses. When stroking with your hands, a mild water-based lubricant will help improve gliding and give your partner more pleasure. You should massage the area with the pad of your finger, using circular motions and light pressure.
At the moment of orgasm, the G-spot will pulsate. To increase satisfaction, you need to influence it in time with contractions. Followers of Eastern teachings claim that in this way you can delay ejaculation and prolong sexual intercourse. In this regard, the male G zone was called the "million dollar spot" and sexologists developed special techniques for delaying ejaculation. Such exercises will be useful for sexual dysfunction.
Is stroking the G-spot useful for a man?
In fact, stimulation of the area can be compared to a light massage of the prostate. Only the latter is done in a medical institution and does not always bring pleasant sensations, associating men with negativity and discomfort. Stroking the erogenous G-spot in a romantic setting is a completely different matter: both the atmosphere and the presence of a loved one are conducive to pleasure. This is a good opportunity to strengthen relationships and bring them more intimate nuances.
In terms of health benefits, regular stroking of the prostate will be a good prevention of diseases of the male organ. But only on the condition that at the moment there is no pathology on this side, and the massage itself is performed gently, without unnecessary pressure. If G-spot stimulation causes pain or discomfort, it is best to consult a doctor.
It is not recommended to affect the prostate area if a man has chronic and acute diseases of the reproductive system: urethritis, prostatitis, prostatic hyperplasia or tuberculosis, urinary disorders, hemorrhoids, fissures in the anus, etc. If in doubt, it's optimal. to use light oral stimulation, excluding anal and manual G-spot massage.